Let us wonder about jealousy tonight.
Lately I saw some situation of jealousy. Some are positive, but mostly are negative.
Positive jealousy is good. Cause it is some sort like a motivation for you. You may jealous when your friend scored the highest mark. And motivated yourself to beat the record. Indirectly you improved yourself and be the best too.
What about the negative jealousy? Very annoying. What I about to share has nothing to do with me, but it does related to people around me.
For the last 5 weeks, I joined a career accelerated program. It is for fresh graduates. In that program I met whole new people. It's good to change the environment. That's a bit of introduction.
In a relationship between man and woman, there will be always the issue of jealousy. In reality, you're not gonna stay close to your partner 24/7, right ? There are time you need to do your own work and does he/she.
That's what happened. There is a girl in my class, and her boyfriend is staying somewhere else. So, when you involved in a program, of course you will mix around and befriend with others. That's normal. Moreover, it's just a normal friendship.
But then, the boyfriend started to flares into fire when he saw his girl took pictures with somebody else. It's not a couple picture, but 4,5 people in that picture. Still jealous? Plus he forbade his girlfriend from having any kind of interaction with other male.
We live in a society, so the interaction between gender is unavoidable.
My personal opinion on this issue, it is very unfair. If you really love her, you should trust her. First, you would know what kind of person your girl is. Then how on earth you think she gonna cheat on you?
Come on. Be professional in relationship. Not to say you can not have that feeling, but please use it wisely, when it is necessary.
If you get jealous at all times, you think your relationship gonna last?
I know this issue is not unusual. It's happened in most of the relationship. But just try to handle it in appropriate way other than to shout and threat.
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